i think there’s this myth that pacing is giving up, being weak. but PEM doesn’t work that way. when i hit my threshold - different every day depending on sleep and stress - pushing past it triggers a crash lasting days.
it’s not laziness. it’s the condition’s mechanics. the world assumes rest = recovery, but for Long COVID, rest is just damage control.
the real prevention is pacing before you crash. does anyone else deal with people (even doctors) who treat pacing like a choice rather than necessity?