first gyn appt, she said ‘irregular cycles, probably stress.’ four mos later, i’m tracking by hand and nothing’s changing. second appointment, basic bloodwork, ‘ur thyroid’s fine, probably just stress.’ dismissed the androgen question. third appointment i brought data, literally my cycle notes and ovulation patterns.
she looked uncomfortable, prescribed spironolactone w/o explanation. fourth appointment i asked directly: ‘what am i actually dealing with?’ finally got the endocrinologist referral. eight months from first visit to specialist.
anyone else waste months on a gyn who kept saying ‘probably stress’ before getting to someone who could actually diagnose?
Eight months is a long time to wait for a proper diagnosis, and I can feel the frustration in your words, especially when you say “what am i actually dealing with”. I’ve been tracking my own symptoms for a few months now, and it’s surprising how much of a difference it’s made in understanding my body.
Like you, I’ve had my share of dismissive comments from healthcare providers, which is why I’m glad you pushed for that endocrinologist referral. As someone who’s still trying to make sense of their irregular cycles and new-onset anxiety, I appreciate your persistence in seeking answers.
Four gyn appointments and eight months lost to “probably stress” is a painful delay. When you said “what am i actually dealing with” it resonates deeply, as I’ve had similar experiences with irregular cycles being downplayed. fwiw I’ve been tracking my own cycle irregularity, and it’s surprising how often the underlying causes are overlooked. anyway.