MIL's advice and my sanity

i’m 10 weeks pp and my mil is still calling daily with tips on how to care for the baby and my toddler. it’s getting overwhelming. i feel like i’m losing my grip on things.

does anyone else deal with this kind of pressure from their family? how do you set boundaries without hurting their feelings? i’m starting to think that maybe i need to take a step back and prioritize my own mental health.

is that selfish?