i’m 13 weeks in and my mil is over here trying to help but honestly it’s stressing me out. she keeps giving lo snacks on her own schedule and it’s throwing off my whole feeding routine. i’ve tried talking to her about it but she just says she’s trying to help.
has anyone else dealt with this? how do you handle it when your mil or other family members override your parenting decisions, even if it’s just something small like snack time? i feel like i’m already anxious enough about being a good mom after the loss last spring, and this is just adding to it.
anyone have any advice on how to work through this without hurting her feelings?