Anxiety meds during breastfeeding

i’m 13 weeks pregnant and already worrying about postpartum anxiety meds. my ob says one thing, but the pediatrician says another. i’m getting conflicting advice on what’s safe for breastfeeding.

has anyone else dealt with this? i’m trying to prepare myself for all possibilities, but it’s hard when the experts don’t seem to agree. what was your experience with anxiety meds during breastfeeding?

did you find any resources that helped you work through this decision?