baby’s 9 weeks old now and i’m still figuring out this whole mom of two thing… my dh is trying to help more but it’s weird bc i have to ask him to do everything
He’s executing tasks, you’re running the entire project; it’s exhausting.
Having to ask for every single thing, even when your DH helps, is its own kind of cognitive load that doesn’t get factored into the equation of who is ‘doing’ what.